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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 08:00

How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Ask yourself:

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why is the show The Big Bang Theory so hated?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Making more friends is a goal.

Will friendly dogs protect their owners?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Where can I sell naked pics of myself online?

Procrastinates a lot.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I help my cat adjust to sleeping in its own room after allowing it to sleep with us as a kitten?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do men prefer women below the age of 30?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Was Jimmy Carter a good President of the United States?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

What I have noticed is nearly every girl I try to connect with whom reject me are in their early 20s why is that the case?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).